Marriage in the Middle Retreat

Rediscover purpose, connection, and calling—in your marriage and in your life.

New Buffalo, MI

Marina Grand Resort

September 19-21, 2025

Led by Josh & Aurielle Lindblom

Imagine This

Imagine walking away from the weekend with...

A renewed connection with your spouse—emotionally, spiritually, and practically

A shared vision for the next season of life, aligned and inspired

Greater clarity about your individual purpose and how it fits within your marriage

Peace of mind from finally naming the tension that’s been quietly growing

Tools to navigate transitions—without losing yourselves or each other

Time to laugh, rest, and breathe again

A new rhythm for reconnection in the midst of everyday life

Hope—because you remembered what it’s like to be on the same team again

This isn’t just a retreat.

It’s a turning point.

Why This Retreat Exists

"What if we reached all our dreams... but lost each other in the process?"


Marriage in the Middle was born out of that question.


We’ve lived the life of movement, transition, platform, parenting, pressure. And at some point, we realized—we had everything we ever wanted... but we felt disconnected.
This retreat is a space for couples to hit pause, look each other in the eyes, and ask:

Where are we going?

What are we building?

And how do we stay connected in the middle of all of it?

It’s about slowing down to hear what God might be saying—and saying it to each other, too.

Who is this retreat for?

This retreat is FOR YOU if...

You’re in a busy or transitional season, and connection has taken a backseat

You want more than surface-level "date nights"

You’re asking deeper questions about purpose, calling, and what’s next

You love each other... and want to fight for your marriage on purpose

You value faith and spiritual growth in your relationship

This retreat is NOT FOR YOU if...

You're looking for crisis counseling or therapy

You're hoping someone else will fix your spouse

You’re not willing to show up with honesty and curiosity

You're more interested in appearances than alignment

You're closed off to faith conversations

Weekend Itinerary

Before You Arrive:

 You’ll receive a short guide and reflection questions to help you prepare your hearts and minds. This weekend isn’t about performance. It’s about presence.

Friday — Arrival + Reconnection

3:00 PM Check-in at Marina Grand Resort

Welcome Reception & Dinner

Opening Session: "What Story Are We Living?"

Fireside connection and personal reflection

Saturday — Depth + Discovery

Morning Devotion + Coffee

Session One: "Individual Calling, Shared Mission"

Midday: Free Time, Couples Activities, or Rest

Session Two: "Reconnecting the Middle"

Dinner + Evening Couple Conversation

Sunday — Integration + Launch

Light Breakfast + Guided Reflection

Final Session: "What’s Next?"

Couple Commissioning + Departure by Noon

Your Stay at Marina Grand Resort

The Marina Grand in New Buffalo, MI is the perfect backdrop for a marriage reset. Located steps from the lakefront, this boutique resort offers peaceful luxury and cozy modern charm.

Amenities Include:

Things to Do in New Buffalo:

Sunset beach walks

Boutique shopping

Local wineries and harbor tours

Art galleries and quaint cafes

Private suite-style rooms with fireplaces and harbor views

Rooftop deck, cruiser bikes, and walkable beach access

Indoor pool, fitness center, and in-room coffee delivery

On-site dining at Bentwood Tavern

Complimentary Wi-Fi and morning coffee service

What You'll Experience

This isn’t a conference or packed event. It’s an intentional, small-group retreat that creates space for you to:

  • Re-center your marriage around shared purpose

  • Hear from God and each other in a quiet setting

  • Discover alignment in dreams, identity, and direction

  • Receive tools for growing in spiritual and relational depth

Encouragement for the Journey

You don’t find connection in the margins of your life. You fight for it in the middle.

The best gift you can give your marriage is time—unhurried, undivided, uninterripted.

A focused marriage doesn’t mean you do less—it means you aim for what matters most.

There is deep joy in knowing why you’re here, who you’re with, and where you’re going.

Meet Your Guides

We’re Josh and Aurielle Lindblom. 15 years of marriage, 4 kids, and a whole lot of transitions—from MLB stadiums to overseas moves to ministry and business building.



We created this retreat because we’ve lived in the "middle" seasons—the ones full of activity but often empty of connection. We know what it’s like to drift, and what it takes to come back to center. We don’t have all the answers, but we do believe in holding space for the honest conversations that bring couples back together.

Frequently Asked
Questions (FAQs)

You Might Be Wondering.

  • This retreat is designed for married couples who find themselves in the "middle"—not necessarily in crisis, but navigating the busyness, transition, and drift that can show up in the middle of life. Whether you're raising kids, changing careers, chasing dreams, or just feeling a little disconnected, this retreat is for you.

  • Not at all. In fact, most couples who attend are doing “fine”—but they don’t want to settle for fine. This is about investing in each other, discovering deeper purpose, and growing together through the changes life brings.

  • You can expect a mix of guided sessions, intentional conversations, couple time, rest, and space to reconnect. There will be structured teaching, reflection exercises, and practical tools for your relationship—all in a relaxed and inviting atmosphere.

  • Yes. While we welcome couples from all backgrounds, the retreat is rooted in a Christian worldview and integrates biblical principles about marriage, purpose, identity, and connection.

  • Nope. While there will be opportunities for group connection, you’ll never be pressured to share personal things publicly. Most of the work is done between you and your spouse.

  • The cost for retreat is $500.

    **Cost does not include room and board. See below.

  • The cost covers all retreat materials and meals throughout the weekend. Lodging is not included, but you'll receive lodging recommendations upon registration.

  • Marina King – $918 total (Nightly Breakdown: $220 on Sept 18, $349 on Sept 19, $349 on Sept 20) — 4 rooms available

    Mariner Luxury Suite – $1,045 total (Nightly Breakdown: $255 on Sept 18, $395 on Sept 19, $395 on Sept 20) — 8 rooms.

  • We love your kids—but this weekend is intentionally designed for just the two of you. Think of it as a reset, free from distractions.

  • We’ll do our best to accommodate dietary needs. You can let us know during registration, and we’ll communicate those details to our catering team.

  • Bring clothes you feel comfortable in, a journal or notebook, and anything else that helps you slow down. You won’t need anything fancy—just come ready to be present.

  • You can register by visiting the Marriage in the Middle registration link and completing the short form. Once registered, you’ll receive a confirmation email with next steps, including lodging options and what to expect.

Ready to Take the First Step?

This is an invite-only retreat for a reason—because we believe intentionality creates transformation. We want to curate a safe, authentic group of couples ready to grow together.



Requesting an invite isn’t a commitment. It’s just the first step in a conversation.

Questions? Reach out to us at
info@congruency.co

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